While talking about your spouse with the royal "we" is likely to be annoying, making time to share a real "we" as part of your marriage is essential. In this Real World Challenge, you two actually get to compete! Let's see who can bring the most positive we-moments into your week.

Tips for Completing the Activity

Hint: Catch your spouse doing something on the list and you can easily even up the score. Give them a mark for what they did, and then earn yourself some points by expressing thanks for their gesture!

Reflection Questions

• How is your marriage different after making we matter all week?
• What was your favorite moment from the week?
• What could you do to help sustain an upbeat climate all the time?