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Yes, and... Workshop

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The Basics...

Join in as Dr. Abigail Hirsch coaches participants in a live workshop. In this video, the couples work on using the Yes, And formulation to bring two different perspectives into a conversation.

Yes, And is a critical dialogue skill in which you demonstrate that you heard and understand what your partner has just said and then add your own opinion.

As you watch this video, pay attention to how the tone and momentum of the conversation changes in the second half of the video. What is the impact of using Yes, And when you disagree with someone?